What is the difference between a female friend and a girlfriend? I am usually confused about the friendship between a boy and a girl.
Most people's consciousness of gender divisions may grow at the age of 11, when students are in adolescence. Some of them start so-called love for the first time. Why do they fall in love? The reason may be his handsomeness or her beauty, or the care between two lonely students. They think the love can be kept forever that time, but usually, they will fall out of love after the fresh feeling. Can we call this kind of love true love? With my growth, I think it is an intimate friendship instead of love. The friendship is like the one with another friend of same sex. Because of the difference of gender, a girl is usually more careful and thinks more about others’ feeling. So a boy is easily to be inclined to say more what is rarely talked about between two boys. That is why boys need female friends. However, many people do not realise it. Some people confirm the love without any thinking, and they often have another lover after several months. A friend told me that she was dating with the 12th boyfriend some day. The word shocked me. After she talked about the experiences in the past, I feel she still cannot differentiate the friendship from love.
Although I have said much about love and friendship, sometimes I am even confused whether I love her or just want her to be my lifelong female friend.It is still a problem to distinguish.Maybe different people hold different views towards love and friendship.The opinion stated above is just
my personal viewpoint.
In fact, I agree with you. Nowadays, many people do not take love seriously. And even some people cannot say what is love. I think friendship between boys and girls is very important. Perhaps it is necessary.
ReplyDeleteQuite good ideas. The topic of love and friendship is interesting but sometimes confusing. Maybe love is a deeper friendship.
ReplyDeleteHaving a girlfriend means responsibility. In my opinion, think over about it before make up our mind.
ReplyDeleteYou can have many female friends but only one girlfriend. I think love means uniqueness and much more responsibility. However, I insist that we are still too young to shoulder the love for we do not know how our future will be and we cannot promise something.
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