Yesterday, we had tests on mathematics and C programming. It is our first checkpoint. However, what I want to recall is not the tests but precious knowledge with precious experience before the tests.
Before the tests, all the classmates, especially girls, worked very hard on both the two subjects. Most of them picked up other related books to read. They all motivated me a lot. I recalled my classmates in my senior high school. The atmosphere of study was quite good as well. But there is something different. In my senior high school, we, boys, always shared our thoughts with each other and girls were always quiet and did their own work. Boys from my class in high school were quite excellent and we talked about everything freely and happily. On the contrary, now, girls exchange their ideas with me while most boys are silent. I feel a little bit lost. There seems to be a block between some boys. I have never come across similar situation before. How I wish I could get some close friends like the guys in my high school!
Though I have shared little with boys now, I learned a lot from girls. It is my first time I find so much in girls. I find girls are more sensitive than boys. However, they can discover some small but essential things easily. I feel like to work with girls because they are careful enough to add some missed ideas. I find girls are more patient than boys. All the girls are willing to listen quietly to what I am saying until I finish it. After that, they show their thoughts slowly but clearly. I find some of them are really mature. Some of the ideas are quite excellent for me but I have never thought about those before. Moreover, I find what boys and girls are like and what life is in girls’ eyes. Many of them think boys are more genius while I think girls were more genius and boys are naughtier. Also, I find girls are mentally weak sometimes and they hesitate at most time.
With communications to girls, I experienced a lot and learned a lot from a different point of view. It is quite interesting to learn from girls. I don’t know whether I am changing. Whatever, I know what a boy need to keep and what a boy need to learn in order to improve.
I still remember you were paitent enough to solve my problems before the check point.Thank you!
ReplyDeleteIn fact,girls and boys share their thoughts in different ways. Boys prefer to put forward their methods first while girls like to listen to others first. I think we can benifit a lot from studyng with both boys and girls.