During the last several days, I read the novel--- Queen Stain, a Chinese novel written by luoluo. The heroine is a twenty-nine lady, a department manager of a world top 500 enterprise. Successfully in career, she cannot omit the conventional problem-----marriage. All her relatives urge that she is no longer young and had better get married as soon as possible. She is also eager to find a proper man, while the true love seems to be a luxury to her.
It sounds miserable. However this phenomenon is becoming more and more common nowadays. It seems that there is always a conflict for the female between the career and the marriage. With the development of the society, women play an essential role and score tremendous achievements. But some girls have difficulty in finding a proper one to get married, just a proper one. Just like that the female doctors are considered as special. Just like a line in the novel “we have struggled for many years to get this status. Why are we criticized that we are cavil at the boyfriends? Why should we depreciate ourselves? ”
Although everyone admits that nowadays the male and the female are equal, people hold different expectation towards the male and the female. In the subconscious of the vast majority of people, once a woman pays too much attention to her career, the energy she left for the family is limited. And it is the harmonious family that everyone longs for. I have read a comment in china, the author points out that there are more and more girls admitted to the universities and the boys are less. It may be a waste of the social recourse for in the future the girls will focus on the families and will not make as much contribution to the society as the boys. I can understand why he said so and comprehend that it is an element of traditional culture. However, I sincerely hope one day people will not have so much prejudice and this conflict will fade away. .
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