Today I want to share you something about what I have learnt from my first love.
Sometimes I cannot help thinking that it is destiny leading us together---first love meant to be the last love……
I always remember what xiaoru ,one of my best friends said,’ Although it turned out to be a mistake to fall in love with him at last ,I still want to send my greatest thanks to him. It was him that made me grow up.’ The same goes for me.
The first thing I have learnt is to have all-around analysis before judging anything. The first time I knew that he came from Shanghai, he did not make a great impression on me! It was all because I used to hear something bad about people in Shanghai. But through the acquaintance with him and his friends in Shanghai, I gradually realized my prejudice unacceptable. It is better to see than to hear.
The second thing I want to share is ‘ love me love my dog.’ Since we are far away from each other, sometimes I became sentimental which resulted in my feelings out of control. But he just tolerated, just understood, and just comforted me with soft words. Maybe love is not blind. When fell in love with a right person, everything intolerable in others’ eyes seems acceptable in lovers’ eyes. I indeed believe that it is exactly the essence of true love!
The last thing I pick out is that true love deserves waiting. I still remember when I said I wanted to stay in China rather than come to Singapore what he told me,’ You deserve a more colorful stage. Love is sweet especially when we wait for each other.’ Burst into sweet tears, I felt I was the happiest person in the world. Love deserves waiting even though they are my heydays in my whole life. Maybe I will spend the most beautiful days just waiting, but I do not care. The right person deserves waiting no matter how long it will take.
GOOD LUCK!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your very vivid description of love
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